TANTRA FOR EVERYONE | The Gift of the Feminine and the Masculine: The Circular Flow of Energy

TANTRA FOR ALL

Part 1: Understanding the feminine–masculine duality, Shiva and Shakti as forces that, in balanced opposition, create the dance of life.

Masculine energy flows differently than feminine energy in daily life and in sexuality. Their longings and expressions are different yet complementary.
As a result of a sexuality that is, on one hand, unconscious and purely biological, and on the other, obsessed with success or failure and with imposed goals and demands—laden with misunderstandings, habits, and shame—we have had very little awareness to observe the body in its natural flow, leading to a distortion of natural sexual expression.

The feminine has the intrinsic capacity to guide sexual fire to the heart and to fully live itself as an expansive, ecstatic force.
The masculine has the capacity to focus attention and bring awareness to the awakening of sexual energy, in order to accompany the feminine from joy into love.

The lack of awareness of our energies and our body contributes to frustration and to the absence of self-love—and consequently, of love for life itself.

Feeling the connection between sex and the heart is essential.
Learning to be aware of sexual fire and to remain relaxed and present—creating space to feel sexual energy traveling through the entire body in an ecstatic, lasting, vibrant, and relaxed way—is a meditation in itself.
For this, it is essential to know your body and to ground yourself in it, feeling and listening to its sensations, rather than bypassing it in pursuit of an illusory goal.

Understanding how energy moves through our body is part of our legacy as conscious human beings. Observing how the energy of sexual fire—of passion—does not burn itself out but instead transforms into vitality, joy, love, compassion, creativity, and ecstasy, is the journey of meditation on the tantric path.

Through massage and breathing, you will be able to experience the map of the body’s seven main glands or chakras, and how the flow of your life energy is perceived through them in its masculine and in its feminine expression.

CONTENT FOR THE FEMININE:
  • Discover the natural relationship of your soul with your body—sensual, relaxed, vital, fluid, receptive… and loving!
  • Expand your heart and bring presence to the thymus gland, thus freeing your gift of love.
  • Awaken awareness of the receptivity of the womb and vagina, and of their sensitive, electromagnetic nature!
  • Become aware of old emotions that are released to make space for the feelings and love that arise in the present!
  • Learn to listen to yourself, to trust your intuition, and to clearly communicate your needs without being overwhelmed by emotions!
  • Be orgasmic instead of obsessing over whether or not to have orgasms.
  • Love and observe what is with presence, without demanding anything from yourself, and thus create an atmosphere of lightness and tenderness with yourself and with your beloved.
  • Massage and understanding of the feminine energetic body.
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Massage and understanding of the electromagnetic nature of the breasts, vagina, and womb.
  • Breathing as an internal massage to expand and witness the flow of energy through the body.
  • Massage and relaxation of the diaphragm (awareness and release of emotional patterns) as a bridge between sex and the heart.

CONTENT FOR THE MASCULINE:

  • Understanding the energetic body of the masculine.
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Expanding sexual energy through the spine as an extension of your penis.
  • Understanding the spontaneous movements of the body.
Returning naturalness to the body.
  • Understanding and reclaiming the fire of masculine presence!
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Opening yourself to your feelings and validating them—thus expressing your inner states instead of hiding or compensating for them!
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Being orgasmic instead of obsessing over whether or not to have orgasms.
  • Loving and observing what is with presence, without demanding anything from yourself, thus creating an atmosphere of lightness and relaxation with yourself and with your beloved.
  • Massage and understanding of the masculine energetic body.
  • Massage, conscious touch, and understanding of your penis, testicles, and prostate on an energetic level.
  • Breathing as an internal massage to expand and witness the flow of energy through the body.
  • Massage, relaxation, and understanding of the hara.
  • Massage and relaxation of the diaphragm as a bridge between sex and the heart.

PART 2: Circulating Energy – Encounter, Initiation, and Communion between the Masculine and the Feminine.

In this meeting, we continue our journey: men and women will initiate each other into understanding and complementing one another.
From the understanding each one has of themselves, they meet and share their experiences, longings, and understanding of their bodies.

Through tantric massages, breathing, and meditations, we will approach each other very slowly, at our own pace, so that we can respect and relax into one another.
From there, we will discover the bliss that arises from this true sharing of opposite and complementary energies.

CONTENT:

  • Approaching slowly and with presence.
  • Exploring what opens or closes within me in the encounter.
  • Exploring and respecting my own rhythms.
  • Learning to feel internal boundaries and express them in the way that is most suitable for you and for others.
  • Celebrating differences—instead of rejecting them—knowing how to use them as a healthy and juicy challenge.
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Listening and communicating with trust and responsibility.
  • Being present and in the heart during the encounter, aware of myself and of the other.
  • Creating body awareness through touch, sound, scents, stillness…
  • Inviting awareness of the breath.
Bringing presence to the positive pole.
  • Expanding energy through the body and circulating between sex and the heart.
  • Bringing presence and relaxation, without goals or ambitions, judgments or comparisons.

Pure accompaniment of love and presence.
Together we are a circuit of electromagnetic energythat amplifies and complements itself.
The mutual gift: the feminine radiating love, the masculine radiating presence.

ASTIKO

GUIDED BY ASTIKO

Astiko

My search led me to tantra at the age of 18 when, while studying philosophy and oriental studies, I came across a book by the mystic Osho and left everything behind to be close to that master who taught me how to die, yet still be blissfully alive, enjoying life in all its expressions.
In addition to her talks, I had the opportunity to participate for eight years in therapy and tantra groups where the work was purely experimental and the knowledge was integrated on a physical, emotional, and mental level, all crowned by meditation. Gestalt, bioenergetics, breathwork, Ericksonian hypnosis, NLP, tantra, meditations from multiple mystical currents, Jungian work, sex therapy, etc. were all techniques I learned to create the space I want to share: the absolute presence of the mind in the here and now, the relaxation of the heart, and trust in what Is.

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